It can be tough to call it quits on a relationship, especially if you’re someone who loves being part of a couple and hates being single. But if your relationship is blah and not giving you what you need, you owe it to yourself to get out. Here’s why:
1. YOU’RE CLOSING OFF YOUR HEART TO BETTER OPTIONS.You’re not allowing yourself to find the right guy if you’re staying with the wrong one. Even if you’re unhappy in your relationship, you probably won’t go looking outside of it (and I’d never recommend you do). Getting out of the relationship will let you open your heart to new possibilities.
2. IF IT’S ALREADY BLAH, IT PROBABLY WON’T GET BETTER.All relationships have their ups and downs, but if yours is and has been stagnant for a long time, that likely won’t change. Imagine how blah it might be in five years if it’s already stale. If the spark’s not there, you can’t force it.
3. THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BRING YOU DOWN.Our relationships affect so many other parts of our lives. If we’re happy in our intimate relationships, we’re more likely to be happy at work, with friends, and vice versa. Feeling unfulfilled in your relationship will leave an emptiness in your heart, which will slowly poison the other areas of your life. relationships,relationships,relationships